I finished a book I didn't much care for and went to peruse some reviews on Goodreads and, like, I forget that my preferred social circle/friend group is not necessarily full of majority opinions until I see a legion of disgusted reviews over the concept of a human man falling in love with a seven foot tall tree monster (a "tree siren," in the book)
That didn't even occur to me as being something aberrant, I was annoyed that the book had terrible pacing and some weak/messy plotting
like obviously???? the enormous eldritch tree lady is attractive????
This is why those "hear me out" cakes/videos always miss for me, basically 100% of the time I'm like "well that's just an objectively attractive [whatever it is]"