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just a coupla guys being pals

erikavonkaiser wrote: ↑Sun Nov 23, 2025 1:41 am

I am not bold enough and would find it way too overstimulating but decora as a fashion movement is super appealing to me

Oh dannnng, I'd not known the name, but looking it up, that's quite keen!

I'm not usually effective enough to be quite that maximalist, but it looks cool as hell!

Your art looks gorgeous! I love the colours and the weird vines(?) (tendrils?) sneaking through the background to hold hands with the character!

Sorcyress wrote: ↑Tue Dec 09, 2025 11:00 am

erikavonkaiser wrote: ↑Sun Nov 23, 2025 1:41 am

I am not bold enough and would find it way too overstimulating but decora as a fashion movement is super appealing to me

Oh dannnng, I'd not known the name, but looking it up, that's quite keen!

I'm not usually effective enough to be quite that maximalist, but it looks cool as hell!

Yeah!! There's a YouTuber I enjoy who does a lot of videos about it and I just love her style, she also talks a lot about dressing how you want and how wearing bright colors and "childish" things does not make you less of a grown-up (she's a mother, for instance, and obviously in general a grown adult).

As it is I'll sneak in little doodads and cute things where I can get away with

I feel like this is a pretty good example of my art improvement,

Same character, I like the first one well enough (finished a few months ago) but the WIP, despite being very unfinished (poor lad has no eyebrows yet), has better shapes and colors

For a more drastic example, this is a Silas from last year:

and one I just did for this year:

My faces are soooooo much better and I've gotten much better at picking colors/shading with contrast/something something art terms

Anyways, I'm still learning but I'm very proud of my progress!

Also, just to say it out loud, I did break up with Sophie near the beginning of this month, and do consider her an abusive and unsafe person. It's unfortunate things turned out that way, but I'm safely by myself in the apartment now and all that's left is to figure out logistics of getting the rest of her belongings out and her name off the lease, then I can block her on everything and start to move on.

We were together three years, but moving in together definitely triggered a lot of things and kept her from hiding things she had been hiding. I wish her the best in spite of everything, and hope the therapy/psychiatrist meds she's currently pursuing will help her.

I'll heal and it'll be alright, but goddamn am I too old for this drama

It is officially the time of year where getting up to my work alarm is agony because I do not want to leave my warm bed nest